Exploring Beyond the Beauty
Relationships are a balancing act, and those who are in a serious relationship with an attractive person have taken the time to get to know them. When the two met, they needed to find common ground. If there was nothing more than physical attractiveness, the relationship would not have lasted. Those who wonder about being with a model or actress might have fantasies, and they wonder about the choices the beautiful person has made.
Those who date extremely attractive people may not have their own physical beauty, and people often wonder how the pair can stay together. They do not see the intimate life of the couple, and it is difficult to imagine what they can share. Physical beauty is nice, but many attractive people are looking for a relationship with someone who is indifferent to their looks. They have found deeper relationships with people who are indifferent to their physical presence.
Each relationship requires a certain amount of give and take if a couple is to stay together, so being able to exchange ideas and plans is important for any relationship. Physical beauty rarely contributes enough to a relationship to matter, so that person must have brains, common sense or some other attributes that makes them part of the relationship. While it is something that is not always recognized in a simply photograph, it is an important factor in sustaining a good relationship over a long period of time.
Long term relationships require the most balance, and couples where one person has great physical beauty are especially versed in this idea. They must discount the physical part of their relationship to find what they need to connect with each other, but they must also acknowledge the role attractiveness plays in their lives. If they can do this successfully, their relationship has a good chance of lasting for many years.